When I was a little girl, I always dreamed of finding the man of my dreams. One that would make me feel safe, secure, laugh at my jokes and make me laugh as well. I also looked for honesty, respect, and happiness. Someone to grow old with. What I failed to realize is that marriage is very hard work. If two people do not consistently work on their relationship, married or not, it will most likely fail. Sometimes we get so caught up in the kids, our jobs, and everyday life, that we forget about our needs as well as our partners needs. I am not just talking about sex and intimacy. We were never taught to listen and be attentive to our partners until it is too late. We forget to say "I love you", we forget to look each other in the eyes and give our utmost attention to the one that is supposed to be our partner for life. I know that when I fall in love again, I will make a conscience effort to do things differently. That said....... I wish everyone romance and love for the new year.